“No love in mortality comes closer to approximating the pure love of Jesus Christ than the selfless love a devoted mother has for her child.” ~ Jeffrey R. Holland
While celebrating motherhood can be traced all the way back to ancient Greek and Roman festivals, the modern celebration of Mother’s Day found it’s roots in the early Christian event called “Mothering Sunday.”
Mothering Sunday took place during lent and was a time when faithful Christians would return to the churches in their communities for a special service. Over the years we have seen Mother’s Day shift to include more secular customs where children present their mother’s with flowers and other tokens of appreciation. In 1914, the American version of Mother’s Day, created by Anna Jarvis, became an official part of the holiday calendar.
This year, White Elegance would love to help you provide your mother with a token of appreciation…a $100 gift card to use in store or online! Visit our Facebook page or Instagram for details and opportunities to enter.
“The purpose of the Young Women organization is to help each young woman…to make and keep sacred covenants and receive the ordinances of the temple.” [Lds.org] Each week, Young Women leaders help guide their girls toward this goal by helping them to strengthen their faith, build their testimonies, and understand their identities as daughters of God.
Sometimes our Young Women see the temple as a place where they will be married “someday”; sealed to their companion for time and all eternity. But the temple is so much more than that! It is a place where we establish and develop our personal relationship with God through covenants and ordinances. Accomplishing our goal of “making it to the temple” is just the beginning!
This realization is why White Elegance offers a variety of Young Women classes each week at their stores. Finding a way to help Young Women to cultivate a desire to make the temple a part of their lives is an important part of our mission. One participant recently gave our temple prep class this rave review: “It helps me envision more [of] what going into the temple entails, what you have to wear, and how you have to prepare. It’s really cool!”
Classes are held at all four of our Utah locations and are offered each Tuesday and Wednesday evening at 7:30pm. Our Temple Bound class is for all Young Women and focuses on different temples around the world, including histories and uplifting stories. Our Temple Preparation class is for Laurels and will concentrate on things they can incorporate into their lives that will prepare them for temple attendance.
In addition, if you are interested in learning about amazing pioneer women who embodied the traits of faith, strength and courage, try our Pioneer Women class. This class is available for all Young Women age groups.
To sign up for any of the above classes, visit https://whiteelegance.com/young-womens-classes and submit your information. Once your submission has been received, a White Elegance representative will contact you with confirmation and details.
Pioneer Trek season is upon us! Are you wondering what you have gotten yourself into? Here is a first person account from a Ma with experience.
In August of 1842 Joseph Smith prophesied, “The Saints will continue to suffer much affliction and will be driven to the Rocky Mountains. Many will apostatize, others will be put to death by our persecutors or lose their lives in consequence of exposure or disease, and some [will live to] build cities and see the Saints become a mighty people in the midst of the Rocky Mountains” (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, sel. Joseph Fielding Smith, 1976, 255). Four years later, the pioneer exodus from Nauvoo, Illinois began.
My pioneer trek lasted a mere three days and left me sunburned, sore, and a bit more wise. I’d like to share my top two faith promoting experiences: pondering on the prairie, and the woman’s pull.
PONDERING ON THE PRAIRIE
From the day we began our trek, as I pondered the experience I was having, two questions kept coming into my mind. First, why did the pioneers have to suffer so terribly and face such tremendous obstacles? Why couldn’t the storms have been calmed and the elements tempered to spare them from such agony? And second, why, when the Willie and Martin companies discussed their late start did they decide to push on instead of wait?
James E. Faust answered my first question by stating, “These excruciating experiences developed in these pioneers an unshakable faith in God. I believe their lives were consecrated to a higher purpose through their suffering. Their love for the Savior was burned deep in their souls and into the souls of their children and their children’s children.”
President Hinckley added, “Our Father in Heaven allowed the handcart pioneers to suffer that we today might more clearly see our responsibilities. A life that will inspire future generations is our responsibility. As great things were expected of the early saints, so are they of us.”
Even those who passed through these trials understood the impact they would have on future generations. Elizabeth Horrocks Jackson of the Martin Company wrote, “I have a desire to leave a record of those scenes and events thru which I have passed that my children may read what [we] were willing to suffer, and did suffer, patiently for the gospel’s sake. I also desire them to know that it was in obedience to the commandments of the true and living God. I hope, too, that it will inspire my posterity with fortitude to stand firm and faithful to the truth, and be willing to suffer and sacrifice all things they may be required to pass thru for the Kingdom of God’s sake.”
The answer to the second question I was pondering, why the Martin and Willie handcart companies decided to push on instead of wait, came during the solo experience at the close of our second day. We were given the opportunity for some alone time, so I grabbed my journal and staked out the most comfortable piece of prairie I could find.
As I was writing about my day I kept feeling the strongest impressions regarding the concepts of Zion and gathering. I came to understand that the motivation for all that the pioneers did came from a true conversion in the center of their souls.
They didn’t wait because they couldn’t wait. They were determined to gather to Zion at any cost. They were unwavering in their resolve to begin the actual physical gathering of covenant Israel to a location, designated by God, where they would build a temple and establish Zion. They left comfortable homes, waded streams, crossed mountains and pulled through heavy sand to be where they would hear a prophet’s voice and live with the Saints of Zion. They came across the plains to live the gospel teachings and to build the kingdom of God. The journey served to sharpen their religious focus. Their accomplishments were possible because they knew that our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, restored the gospel through the Prophet Joseph Smith and they could not WAIT to be a part of it!
My trek experience helped me to truly appreciate not just the pioneer legacy of faith and courage but to understand their legacy of conviction.
THE WOMAN’S PULL
Finally, is the experience of the woman’s pull. This part of the trek is meant to represent the historical fact that men were often not part of a family’s trek west. Some were taken away when the Mormon Battalion was formed, while others pulled handcarts up until the moment of their death, leaving their wives and daughters and sisters to carry on. It was the women’s resourcefulness, efficiency, and steadfastness under inhumane conditions that pulled many families through.
There were many lessons learned on the woman’s pull, but I want to share the one that had the most impact on me.
My trek daughters and I were the second handcart to start up the hill. After the inspiring message we received from our leaders my girls and I were repeating the mantra, “we can do this”. I put my head down, focused on my feet, and stepped forward.
I thought about the quote by Russel M Nelson, “Truly the Lord encourages us to walk in faith to the edge of the light and beyond—into the unknown. After the trial of our faith, He once again shines the light ahead of us, and our journey of faith in every footstep continues.”
It wasn’t until I reached the base of the hill that I realized that the men and boys were reverently lining both sides of the trail. A few steps later the girl on my right asked, “Why do they all have their hats off?” My head had been down, so I hadn’t noticed…but she had. I answered her question, “They have their hats off out of respect for you”.
I will never forget that moment as I looked up and saw all of those young men looking respectfully on. In that instant I recognized the fact that the priesthood of God sustains me in every way, in every aspect of my life, every day of my life. My faith and my testimony of the priesthood grew three sizes that day.
For me, the trail was a schoolhouse of faith and learning. As a second-generation Mormon I don’t have a pioneer heritage, per se, but the lives of these amazing pioneers touched my heart and rekindled my passion for the Gospel of Jesus Christ. For this, and for them, I will be eternally grateful.
While White Elegance partners with several different charitable projects, this is one of our very favorites. All of our baptismal and blessing jewelry is produced in the Philippines by a group of resourceful and amazing Young Women.
They meet twice a week, either at the meetinghouse or their instructor’s home, to practice the different jewelry designs. “I am enjoying my time with these girls and I am inspired to help them reach their goals,” said their advisor, Chandra.
Making a Difference
Most of the Young Women have taken on this project in order to help contribute to their family income. When asked about what she will use her earnings for, Kyle (14) said, “I will spend [mine] for my schooling and I will not ask money anymore from my parents.” Herlyn (12) said, “I will save for the temple trip, missionary fund, clothes and family needs.”
According to Chandra, most of the girls have only one or two outfits at home, so paying for their own clothes gives them a real sense of independence and accomplishment. Many of them will use some of their funds to help pay for school fees and projects. Each of them enjoys the satisfaction of contributing to help support their families.
Jackie (age 21) was serving as the First Counselor in the Young Women’s program when she joined in the jewelry making. Chandra welcomed her to the group after Jackie received her mission call. “I’ll save my earnings for my mission…and give some to my mother for our daily expenses,” she said.
Why We Do It
Every time you purchase a baptism necklace or a blessing bracelet you directly impact the lives of these Young Women and their families. This is why White Elegance created this charitable partnership. The Young Women are blessed by their efforts, and we, in turn, are blessed by them.
Founders, Anna Barbieri and Tamera Perkins, were recently dragged from behind their tape measures, bolts of fabrics and computer screen to tell their story of starting White Elegance twenty five years ago. Their persistence, grit and love of what they do created a gem in the apparel industry. We think you’ll enjoy taking a look behind the scenes of what goes into creating clothing masterpieces and a successful business. Share this inspirational story with your friends because at the end of the video you’ll see that White Elegance isn’t just a clothing company.